Determine your male-female proportion

I guess many of you have not taken the few minutes to make the 50 YES/ NO decisions that could teach you a lot.

Not that this could possibly reveal  if you  are possibly a transsexual in disguise but to learn something on how inadequate our left brain approach is to most essential questions.

Left brain is valuable to store telephone numbers and names and to know what is right and left (so if you always had a problem with that – its actually a good sign that you are not completely a slave of your left brain)

However to determine if you or your client is male or female, successful or unsuccessful, has autism or not, is pregnant or not,  if he has a physical problem or an informational problem – this cannot and should not be decided by the left brain but by an alternation process between right and left hemisphere.

In the ancient yogic tradition, language is said to be the source of delusion – where the root cause of

delusion is “objectification” of the world and its phenomena versus feeling, seeing, experiencing,

and knowing the world as a whole. When our minds assign names and definitions to phenomena we

turn those phenomena into objects, lifting them out of the natural panorama in which they exist, ulti-

mately creating a disintegrated world view, this understanding of the cosmos as a set of objects taking

us farther and farther away from what the ancients considered the true reality

What I am giving you here, is an insight how you can over-come this ancient dilemma, without becoming a recluse and believing/ hoping/ asserting that the mind is  an obstacle to experiencing the world in its totality – no it is not but a half-brain approach to the world is. When we learn how to alternate between Analysis and Synthesis  “We will see the world as for the very first time”

I am spending this time on something that most  have thought to be self-evident. Whether  someone is male or female you probably thought (copied from our cultural believe) is a questions of hormone levels and physical organs.  As long as your hormone level – physical organ combination fits that of the majority you feel “YOU KNOW” but (as always) the feeling or certainty of knowing is a form of inertia that eventually in old age has to be reset by death.

Only if “hormone level – physical organ combination” do not fit that of the majority we and particularly those for whom this is the case have a problem to decide/ define/ know what/ who they are. We think and are trained to believe that this is a bad thing as our culture has programmed us to search/ prefer/ value  certainty above un-certainty.

What I want to show you with this little exercise is that even for all of those for whom “hormone level – physical organ combination” DO FIT that of the majority it is not appropriate to define yourself as categorical MALE or FEMALE because if you do this many of you will have areas where your personal attributes do not match the image of male or female of the majority and thus will lead to conflicts with your definition (illusion) that eventually if unobserved make you sick or better will need sickness to come in to unlock this particular stagnation.

Putting people in a box, what we use to call diagnosing, is the most dangerous, iatrogenic disease of all and still does not even show in the list of iatrogenic disease : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iatrogenesis

In the United States, figures suggest estimated iatrogenic deaths per year of^[1]:

• 12,000 due to unnecessary surgery
• 7,000 due to medication errors in hospitals
• 20,000 due to other errors in hospitals
• 80,000 due to infections in hospitals
• 106,000 due to non-error, negative effects of drugs

We do not yet count the short/long term effects of diseases that only set in after a diagnosis (right or wrong does not matter) was made.

Our cultural addiction to specify and give labels to complex combinations of attributes is so brutal and unquestioned part of our education that we think it useful or even necessary and certainly not potentially harmful, if we lack any insight to label a child with PDD-NOS “Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified “ see http://www.informationenergymedicine-academy.com/autism-aspberger-syndrome/

If you feel confused/ uncertain/ disoriented after all that – welcome to a better health – you are younger as a result – curious  and wondering again – open to learn things in a new way and not afraid to restart.

To show you that the 50 questions I proposed in the last post on the male-female question was only a superficial first step at a closer look, these 50 questions have now been reformulated in 2 different modes – take the time to circle in each row – either the YES or the NO and make a choice – this is good use of the left brain – although you want to throw the whole thing out of the window – as deep down something tells you that will shake your established window to the world.

Then add up in each column of Test A and B the all the YES or NO you circled and multiply it by 2. The number in the X column is your female percentage and the number in column Y  your male percentage  according to test A or B respectively – what this means I will discuss in the next weeks post ( and please don’t be afraid to comment ) Lene do you still think “You learned enough about what it means to be male or female from reading magazines and new age books ?

http://www.informationenergymedicine-academy.com/why-women-cant-sleep/

TEST A : male-female balance	X	Y
I learned learned from my parents to sleep on the right side of my spouse	Yes	NO
All my friends spend a lot of time and money on their physical appearance so I do it also	Yes	NO
I believe I should consider freedom more important than security	NO	Yes
From early childhood on I was taught that harmony is more important than necessarily making the truth public	Yes	NO
My parents always wanted me to have a penis	NO	Yes
My father wanted me to love to watch sports with him	NO	Yes
I think is the natural law to be predominately passive when it comes to making contact to the opposite sex	Yes	NO
I learned to love cooking from my mother	Yes	NO
I believe in the christian idea that marriage should be sexually monogamous	Yes	NO
I think having a good sense of smell is a girl-thing	NO	Yes
When coming to a door- I believe it is a matter of good manners that I should open it first	NO	Yes
I do not feel always comfortable but if my friends start to talk about others, I just join in.	Yes	NO
It would set me down in the eyes of my friends if I let myself be dominated	NO	Yes
It was the expectation of my father that I should have a vagina	Yes	NO
Having a beard makes me more secure and attractive	NO	Yes
I agree that my gender should not have hair growing on back or arms	NO	Yes
Your mood changes often with the expectations of others	Yes	NO
For me to have kids and to care for them is what is expected from my family	Yes	NO
I know we usually should be sexually aroused quicker than the girls.	NO	Yes
My mother always told me that for sex to be really enjoyable it needs an emotional connection first	Yes	NO
I learned from my friends to start reading magazines where they talk about other peoples lives	Yes	NO
I was always expected to be the one who fixes things	NO	Yes
I was often put into the position to find the way for others	NO	Yes
Dirt and oil has been around me since my early childhood	NO	Yes
I have learned early to act as if I am frightened.	Yes	NO
Using others to my advantage I learned in my family	Yes	NO
It is part of my self-image to ask others for help	Yes	NO
I believe it is necessary to show strength and independence not to be abused	NO	Yes
From all what I have observed around me, things have to be romantic to make me feel good	Yes	NO
I learned early that it is safer to be more hard then flexible	NO	Yes
I frequently act the way others expect me to.	Yes	NO
I have long hair because that was always the custom	Yes	NO
I have to be more extrovert than introvert as this is what my position requires	NO	Yes
I have been taught to cover my nipples, already when I was a child	Yes	Yes
If my voice would not be strong and assertive nobody would listen	NO	Yes
I had to learned early to fix gadgets	NO	Yes
It is my role to be indirect rather than direct in my approach	Yes	NO
If not me – nobody will drive	NO	Yes
Its is my function to pay	NO	Yes
In my position it is smarter to follow	Yes	NO
My job requires me to often look into the mirror	Yes	NO
I made it a rule for me to wait rather than to contest	Yes	NO
I am using all my will power to absorb a lot until I explode	Yes	NO
I was never given the time to write long letters	NO	Yes
I was always expected to lead rather than follow	NO	Yes
It was often profitable to appear more fragile then enduring	Yes	NO
Its how we do things – talk about problems rather than keep them for ourselves	Yes	NO
I guess I should like to take things apart to see how they work	NO	Yes
I learned early to be quicker to blame than to justify	NO	Yes
If I did not learn to be able to break the rules rather than obey, I would often be the looser	NO	Yes

TEST B male-female balance	X	Y
It feels so natural to only sleep on the right side of my spouse	Yes	NO
I love to spend time and money without end on my physical appearance	Yes	NO
Freedom inspires me whereas security makes me sleepy	NO	Yes
Harmony makes my heart feel so good and I would always keep things confidential that could upset it	Yes	NO
I am very proud of my penis	NO	Yes
It would be very hard for me to live a life without watching sports	NO	Yes
I tried it otherwise but it feels better to be passive when it comes to making contact to the opposite sex	Yes	NO
Cooking I never had to learn, it was always part of me	Yes	NO
I am open, really I do not know if ” relationship means sexual monogamy ”	Yes	NO
I never paid much attention to fragrance probably my sense of smell is not as good as that of others	NO	Yes
I love to open the door for others	NO	Yes
I was told often, but still often cannot stop to talk about others in their absence	Yes	NO
I don’t think anybody would be able to dominate me for long	NO	Yes
I love my vagina	Yes	NO
I have hair growing in my faith, why not?	NO	Yes
I never paid attention to the hair growing on my back or arms.	NO	Yes
Only now that you ask, I feel the connection to the phases of the moon.	Yes	NO
My instincts are all alive and vibrant being around kids	Yes	NO
Sex bypasses my mind and often also emotions	NO	Yes
It is unthinkable for me to have sex without an emotional connection	Yes	NO
I tend to forget myself when I read about other peoples lives	Yes	NO
I cannot stop making things practical	NO	Yes
A good sense of orientation, is part of my talents, I never had to train it.	NO	Yes
I have spoiled many cloth but dirt and oil just jumps on me	NO	Yes
I guess fear was and will always be a big part of my life	Yes	NO
I know it is a weakness but I tend to use others to my advantage	Yes	NO
I enjoy to ask others for help	Yes	NO
Strength and independence are so important to me	NO	Yes
I really cannot explain it but to be romantic makes me feel good	Yes	NO
It feels more natural for me to be more hard then flexible	NO	Yes
I feel like a flute that existence plays a melody on	Yes	NO
I would not like myself with short hair	Yes	NO
I feel more at ease being more extrovert than introvert	NO	Yes
I love my two nipples	Yes	Yes
My voice is strong and assertive, never could imagine it to be otherwise	NO	Yes
I like to fix gadgets – why not ?	NO	Yes
To be indirect is more easy for me	Yes	NO
It feels better to be the one who drives	NO	Yes
It feels better to be the one who pays	NO	Yes
I is easy for me to follow	Yes	NO
Its hard for me to acknowledge but I look often into the mirror	Yes	NO
If I can choose I wait rather than contest	Yes	NO
I feel like a sponge, I can absorb a lot until explode	Yes	NO
I am not very associative so my letters are usually short	NO	Yes
I tend naturally to lead rather than follow	NO	Yes
I fear I am more fragile then enduring	Yes	NO
I am taking a lot of energy from talk about problems rather than keeping them for myself	Yes	NO
Nobody taught me but I like to take things apart to see how they work	NO	Yes
There is an unfavorable tendency in me that tends more to blame than to justify	NO	Yes
I never had a problem to break the rules rather than obey	NO	Yes